How to find a sensitive lawyer for domestic abuse?

I am facing a domestic family issue. I have some legal knowledge and have studied my case based on that. I am looking for highly patient, confident, bold, client-friendly, service-oriented private advocates—preferably offering pro bono services or charging very nominal fees. The advocate should not be overburdened with too many cases, and should be willing to give personal attention and quality time to the case. I need someone who does not overpower the client, is open to discussing the client's views and suggestions, and considers various legal options in handling a challenging, intricate, and delicate domestic abuse issue. Interested advocates may leave a note. Apologies for any inconvenience caused.